Why should the wedding ring be worn on the fourth finger?
There is a beautiful explanation .....
try this...
Thumb represents your Parents Second (Index) finger represents your Siblings Middle finger represents your-Self Fourth (Ring) finger represents your Life Partner & the Last (Little) finger represents your children
Firstly open your palms (face to face) bend the middle fingers and hold them together back to back
Secondly open and hold the remaining three fingers and the thumb - tip to tip (As shown in the figure below):
Now try to separate your thumbs (representing the parents) they will open
because your parents are not destined to live with you life long and have to leave you sooner or later
Please join your thumbs as before and separate your Index fingers (representing siblings) they will also open
because your brothers and sisters will have their own families and will have to lead their own separate lives
Now join the Index fingers and separate your Little fingers (representing your children) they will open too
because the children also will get married and settle down on their own some day
Finally join your Little fingers and try to separate your Ring fingers (representing your spouse).
You will be surprised to see that you just cannot
because Husband & Wife have to remain together all their lives - through thick and thin!!
aww...
so sweet...
c:
++jingz++; 9/19/2007 12:59:00 AM
Monday, September 17, 2007
argh.
think i really v blur leh~
how!?!?!
tot i almost lost my purse again this time rd i panicked on the bus
i boarded the bus w my purse so i was thinking
"impossible! how can like tt disappear de? unless it dropped or sth"
and i searched high and low for my purse on the bus when i cldnt seem to be able to find it in my bag.. and i even looked into the plastic bag which contains my newly-bought shoes which i alr know it cldnt be inside but worth a try and i was desperate enough
and true enough, it wasnt in the plastic bags
i even asked the person sitting behind if he saw anything dropped on the floor.. searched for so long till i missed my stop.
search for it a stop earlier till the bus stop which i'm supposed to alight and still unable to find..
i was thinking "wad i do?why i so blur!?!" and got even more kan-cheong.
after i exceed a bus top, i got so frustrated that i dumped all the contents in my bag out
...
and there it was.
embarrassed enough, i quickly kept all my stuffs back into my bag (except my purse) pressed the bell and alighted at the nxt stop.
argh. and i kept my purse back into my bag immediately.
i really must learn to be more alert! so blur! so sotong! cnt take it myself le~ argh.
++jingz++; 9/17/2007 12:50:00 AM
Friday, September 14, 2007
11 09 07
i lost my purse again.
only realised it when i ended work at ard 8pm. thinking back, the last time i saw it was at the coffee shop where i had lunch w my colleagues
and
the thing is i dont rmb keeping it...
the worse part was that my lunch was at ard 1330 by that time it was alr 2000 gone for abt 8hrs le~
i was thinking
"argh! oh man! die le la~ everthing also inside. dont think i'd be able to find it.."
furthermore, i've liked dropped it hrs ago and not that i've made an immediate realisation and went back.
the last time i misplaced it (which was last yr abt jul?) at plaza sing during my lunch break, i went back immediately upon realising it but it's alr gone
(luckily someone left it at my doorstep the nxt day although all my cash and ezlink card was gone)
so this time round i wasnt putting much hope on it
i panic and called up aaron asking if he rmb seeing me keep my purse or anything he didnt then he helped to call up wei chong to help check if i dropped it at work and it wasnt at my workplace...
i really wasnt holding much hope then le
i looked ard and asked a lady working thr she said she didnt see anything
by that time i had alr given up hope and was thinking of gg to the police instead of meeting him for dinner le
feeling super miserable and wondering how i am gg to explain to my mom she had alr asked me not to leave my ic inside my purse le and yet i still do
just at that moment another shop attendant approached me and asked if the purse i dropped was brown in colour
a surge of hope rushed thru me
...
she held out my purse
...
no words wld be able to define the amt of gratitude i held for them
i was so happy so happy that i wanted to hug her
everything was still intact
no amt of thx wld be able to express my gratitude to them i am really fortunate to have met such kind and honest ppl like them
ps. apologies and thx to aaron and wei chong for troubling you guys. for caring. for helping.
and for those who knew abt it as well. (i didnt realise so many ppl know, i quite paiseh liao) thx too. yup. i've found it le.. c: and i will try to take gd care of my belongings de.
++jingz++; 9/14/2007 10:45:00 PM
Wednesday, September 12, 2007
i feel super lousy today.
feeling miserable.
i have no idea why. everything i do seems to go wrong today. keep making mistakes at work. think its quite bad till i dont feel like working and just go home or go out relax. tot things wld go better.
asked him to acc me to go watch movie after work. things didnt seem to get any better either. :c sad.
wallowing in self-pity at the moment. pls pardon me. and ignore me.
keeping silence.
trying to tell myself things will get better. no. it will defintely get better. and i will get over it. that's right.
argh. i'm driving myself crazy.
++jingz++; 9/12/2007 11:52:00 PM
Thursday, September 06, 2007
i have come to face w reality that my 'a' level results are not good
a person's acheivement is not based on one's studies...
i'm glad that i've come to accept the truth and am strong enough to tell anyone who comes by and ask me why i'm not schooling currently and why i'm only starting nxt yr.. provided if all goes well
to those who look down on me bcos of my results, you're shallow.
esp those who arent really educated themselves. and only know how to talk big. i know i'm not as smart as my sis. i'm not a straight "a" student. but do not dismiss what i say. or be so skeptical abt anything i bring up. it is just a conversation. and sharing. i'm just trying to close up the distance. make us more family. create conversation. if you dont wish to or if you dont believe or whatsoever, you can dont participate in it.dont have to counter every word i say.or make me sound like an idiot or a gullible child. at least i dont brag and talk of things i know. if you only believe what expertise says and what you think, i also got nthing to comment abt.but do not look down on me or my parents.
i believe in character building. qualifications is not everything.
++jingz++; 9/06/2007 11:06:00 PM
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