Sunday, July 06, 2008
some thots.
talking abt not giving up the entire forest just because of one tree.
tt's frm jonathan - johnson's fren.
but i think tt's the entire point of being in a relationship.
in making a choice of which tree you want to spent your entire life growing old with.
having made a choice
you'll have to stick w it
support it thru the different seasons.
nurturing it w sunlight and rain
giving the care and concern needed for growth
tt's where the love develops
and furthers.
it takes alot o
patience and time
love, care and concern
alot o weathering
to really pull it thru
giving up = letting wither away
after so much
was it worth it?
no wonder thr are some trees tt wither away so quickly.
bocs ppl gave up wanting to take care and nurture it
halfway thru its growth
the other party gave up
why?
cos they want to try planting other trees?
or are they tired o nurturing the plant anymore?
in order
for the plant to grow well
patience is needed
love is needed
consistent care and concern is needed
commuciation is needed
faith is needed
trust is needed
and most imptly,
believe.
the plant wld grow big and strong.
with enough rain and sunlight
added fertilisers would speed up and strengthen the gowth
similarly in a r/s
for it to grow well and strong
effort must be put in to sustain it well
for it to pass thru the good and the bad
to survive thru
we wld have to believe
stay in check
communicate
trust each other
and
work tgt hand in hand
the encouragement
sharing the joys and tears
making matters worthwhile
working out problems tgt
believing and trusting and having faith in each other tt no matter what, things wld turn out well in the end. no matter how difficult times had been. its ought to be pulled thru. thr's always a rainbow after every storm. just tt whether you see it anot. or rather if you choose to see it anot.
only then wld we see the fruit.
and taste the sweetness of it.
and smile at the silly moments of the bad
and be glad tt we had pulled it thru
pateince love and care
believe and trust
holding on and not giving up - it doesnt mean dragging
it means how much you are willing to work things out tgt
how much you believe and trust
why?
bocs you have to believe that it'll work out
love.believe.patience.trust.
when i agreed to step into tt r/s
i had alr chosen to give up the rest o the forest.
in your case,
it shld have been the same
but now
you have chosen to let this plant you looked for wither away
this lil plant tt you have chosen to let go
is now trying to survive thru
w/o the air, water and sunlight it was once provided with.
alot is needed for it to grow again
pulling thru...
付出了这么多
得到的又是什么
值得吗？
爱情。。
牵挂这么多
问题这么多
顾虑这么多
烦恼这么多
人偏偏还在这人海茫茫的世界里寻找自己的爱情
寻找的到底又是什么？
人还真是矛盾
老天涯还真会捉弄人
++jingz++;
7/06/2008 12:19:00 AM
